And on your attitude: please stop trying to pigeonhole women to explain why you haven't clicked with some.
Few women are foolish enough to be waiting for the mythical Mr. Big of Sex and the City to come along. Far more know there's more immediate value in finding a good guy with a big heart; they just have to recognize him. That's where your approach matters.
Get outside your parents' home and your circle of mocking acquaintances to places where you can meet new, caring friends – male and female – who share your interests.
Start with your faith community, your community centre, and any activity group that draws you. Be open, friendly and don't push for dates too soon.
